I just want to tell you all another story. I have recently gotten back from Queenstown for a week of holidays. Going to Queenstown completely throws off the dynamic of the household as both my parents agree that they are on holiday as well and that we all have to help out with daily tasks. This of course includes cooking. I was so excited to be able to put some of my new skills I have learnt over the last couple of months cooking with Alysha that I automatically volunteered to do all of the cooking. Caulton (1995) states that ritual becomes a big part of your life, the looking forward to it, the anticipation of an activity, the getting ready and the looking back are also very big parts of a ritual. I often look back over the last couple of months since I began cooking with Alysha at her flat once a week and laugh at some of the experiences we have had. I have learnt a lot from cooking with her and my cooking skills have most definitely increased. My family all noted this as I cooked them dinner in Queenstown. I decided I was going to make a prawn stir-fry one night (after my recent discovery of my love of seafood), and they were very impressed that I was cooking such an elaborate meal! - I think they thought they were going to be living off two minute noodles for the week haha! Although we have to eat food everyday or we would not survive for very long, it has become a lot more than just something to eat for me, over this process. It has become "something to find and cultivate" (Visser, 1986, p. 12). Before going over to Alysha's flat each week I was always able to find food in our cupboard at home and never thought a lot about the process that people go through to get it there. For most of human history we have spent a large portion of our lives worrying about food, and plotting, working, and fighting to obtain it, than we have any other pursuit (Visser, 1992). Now days we are so lucky to be able to go to the supermarket and purchase food items to cook, if we lead very busy lives you can buy food that is pre-cooked and pre-grated.
References:
Visser M. (1986). Much depends on dinner. New York: Grove Press.
Visser M. (1992). The rituals of dinner. London: Viking, The Penguin Group
Caulton, editorial Occupation, Vol 3, no 2 December 1995